Happy Loving Day!

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If you’d like to know more about the Lovings and their historic case that struck down miscegenation laws, click here.

Interracial romance is a big deal that shouldn’t be. I’ve written quite a few romance novels and novellas in which race wasn’t an issue for the main couple, or if it was, it wasn’t the main issue or people on the periphery were the ones who had to face their issues. I think that’s realistic.

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When I wrote my first book, No Commitment Required, I wanted to show that there’s more than skin color that brings people together. Yvonne and Michael were both from upper middle class families. They both own their own businesses. And they both were afraid of loving and losing.But each recognized a kindred spirit in the other. They “got” each other.

Socio-economic status, past losses, upbringing–those are the things in which we find lasting common ground.Sure there can be issues, sure there can be doubts, but the commonalities that are more than skin deep–those are the things that lasting relationships are built on.

My husband and I bonded over Metallica. I’ve always had a thing for guitarists and he’s got quite the collection. We’re both very laid back and we both have messed up families. We “get” each other on a level that I’m thankful for on a daily basis. I’m well aware that a generation ago, our marriage would have been illegal and people used the Bible to justify the whys of it.

That was then, and this is now. Most of the time, if my husband and I get a double-take, it’s probably because he’s a foot taller, has a few tattoos, and likes to wear snarky T-shirts. We’re a normal family with normal family issues. My stepson and I get along great, even when I have to pull the mom card.

The only reason that interracial marriage or even same-sex marriage is a big deal is because humanity is a nosy creature that enjoys getting all up in each other’s business. Especially here in the United States. We’re nuts about who’s sleeping with whom. We love to speculate about other people’s sexuality. We thrilled and scandalized to discover someone has a kink.

Seriously, people: WHY DO YOU GIVE A FLYING F*CK? The Universe won’t stop because of this, or it would have stopped a long time ago. You’ll still have to pay your bills. Nothing in your life will change just because some other folks are doing things you wouldn’t do.

We’re all people, and we all want the same thing: to find someone who gets us enough to want to share forever. That’s the reason I write what I write.

In celebration of Loving Day, I’m giving away a copy of my very first IR novel, No Commitment Required. If you’d like to be entered in the drawing, simply comment below.

Continue on with the Loving Day Blog Hop! Next up is author Lena Hart!

My latest release is Hunting the Jackal, the second installment in the Sons of Anubis erotic romance series. You can also fine me on Twitter (@seressia) and Facebook.

11 thoughts on “Happy Loving Day!

  1. stacy

    Although we have come a ways–it wasn’t without much angst!…glad the Lovings fought for what they believed in and it has benefited many!

  2. Meghan Stith

    This is such a great idea for a giveaway hop! IR couples are beautiful and I honestly think they create the most beautiful babies!!
    Thanks for the giveaway! I’m gonna keep hopping along!

    mestith at gmail dot com

  3. Vallory Vance

    LOL! Loved your post. I’ve been in an interracial marriage for 18 years and if I happen to notice someone staring at us, I immediately think it’s because there’s food in my teeth and nothing else.

    1. Seressia Glass Post author

      LOL, Vallory! I “forget” that some people might still be small-minded in this day and age and that not everyone is as accepting as most. Life’s too short to let it bother me, though!

  4. Belinda G

    I loved reading No Commitment Required. I was pulling for Yvonne and Michael but also felt, like you, why didn’t everybody mind their own freaking business. If people would just take care of their own house, the work would be a better place.

    Every one should be able to love who they want…no matter, race creed or sexual orientation. Love is love! I’m glad that “color barrier thang” didn’t deter you. 🙂 Thank for sharing!

    Belinda G
    belgre AT Comcast DOT net

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